Sorry to hear you're having issues with the mapping. Bomes is a bit tricky as it uses a yoke and incoming/outgoing midi messages to determine the color. This can certainly take time to understand, and develop a color or sequences that matches your needs. I don't know of a single "fix all" program for this, as everyones needs are different. There is a prior post that has a demo version of an app that can set colors per horizontal row (for me, this isn't what i need, as i work off verticle rows, again, everyone's needs varies). Bomes has a fantastic support team and will answer questions and review some coding if sent over. I would start there and see if you can figure out a game plan of what your needs are so you can program accordingly.
You also might reach out to the community to see who has currently programmed their controllers to what you need and see if they could share/sell their coding to you. I'm pretty slammed during the summer and fall, but can help code during the winter in my offf season.
Best of luck.
Would LOVE for AKAI to build a program that allows you to select a button or knob in a GUI and set color and effect for said button or knob when used in various states (ie. pressed, released, or used, or un-used). That would solve everyone's needs (especially if it could receive feedback from Resolume on top of that initial programming). This will probably never happen, up to us end users to make something like that, and that is way beyond my skillset.