AE is CPU based, If you're running Element, that will use some openGL.
MA3D is openGL and I'm not sure on WYSIWYG.
The RTX card won't have any benefits for these software anytime soon.
So I'd say go with whatever will bring you the most return ($) the quickest.
On the other hand, Do you want to resell the laptop in the future, or run it until it dies? If you're looking to resell, having the latest GPU will help you in the long run. Either option is a good choice for what you're wanting to do (imo).